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Caitlin Raymond: Most “Difficult Patients” Aren’t Difficult at All

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Nov 19, 2025, 13:42

Caitlin Raymond: Most “Difficult Patients” Aren’t Difficult at All

Caitlin Raymond, Assistant Professor of Pathology and Transfusion Medicine at University of Wisconsin-Madison, shared on LinkedIn:

”We talk about “difficult patients” all the time in healthcare — but I’m increasingly convinced we’re labeling the wrong thing.

Two encounters made this hard to ignore:
• A wife described as “the meanest person I’ve ever met.”
In reality, her husband was paralyzed after a medical error and lying in the ICU. She wasn’t hostile — she was terrified, grieving, and fighting for someone she loved in a system that had started keeping her at arm’s length.

• An incarcerated sickle cell patient labeled with “behavioral issues.”
When I sat down, made eye contact, and actually listened, he was thoughtful, honest, and warm. The “behavior” dissolved the moment his humanity was acknowledged.

Neither of these people were “difficult.” They were reacting in completely understandable ways to trauma, fear, power imbalance, and — frankly — how they were being treated.

This is attribution bias in action: assuming behavior comes from personality instead of context. Neuroscience tells us most behavior in high-stress situations is driven by the limbic system, not stable traits. When people are overwhelmed, afraid, or unheard, their frontal lobes go offline. What we call “difficult” is often just neurobiology.

The problem isn’t the patient.
The problem is our interpretation.

When we shift from a fixed mindset (“they’re just like that”) to a growth mindset (“their behavior makes sense in this situation”), our interactions change. Outcomes change. Trust changes.

Most “difficult patients” aren’t difficult at all. They’re people navigating difficult circumstances.

Full piece here.”

Caitlin Raymond