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Dr Arun V J on a Silent Hero: The Donor Who Traveled 8 Hours to Save a Child

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Nov 26, 2025, 04:47

Dr Arun V J on a Silent Hero: The Donor Who Traveled 8 Hours to Save a Child

Dr Arun V J, The Leader of Transfusion Medicine at Malabar Medical College, posted on LinkedIn:

“Stop saying the world is selfish. I have proof you’re wrong.
The Kind of Donor You Don’t Forget
She is 8 years old. She has cancer. And, she was running out of time.

We had hit a wall. Platelet refractoriness. It’s a nightmare scenario in transfusion medicine. Her body was chewing up everything we gave her. Random donor platelets were useless. Platelets kept dropping no matter what we gave. We needed a specific match.
We found one guy. Just one.

He had donated once before as a bystander for a relative at our centre.
The problem?
He lives hours away. If you know the roads in this part of the country, you know “8 hours” isn’t a smooth highway drive. It’s broken roads, multiple bus changes, and exhaustion. No direct trains.

I hesitated to make the call. It’s a big ask. “Hello, can you take a day off work, spend your own money, sit on a bus for 8 hours, and get poked with a needle for a kid you don’t know?”

But I looked at the girl’s parents. They are financially drained. They are terrified.
My motto has always been: No patient shall die in need of blood.
So I dialed. I didn’t sugarcoat it. I told him the truth. “Without your specific platelets, she might not make it.”

He didn’t ask for money. He didn’t ask the child’s name. He didn’t ask “Why me?”
He just said: “I’ll be there by noon tomorrow.”

And he was. He walked in, sweaty from the journey.
He sat in the chair for the apheresis procedure. He donated his Single Donor Platelets (SDP).
When he finished, I asked if he wanted to meet the family. He shook his head.
“No need, Doctor. Just let me know if she needs me again. But call me a day prior so I can get leave from my boss.”

Then he left. No selfie. No social media post. No cape. Just a guy getting back on a bus.

The news tells us the world is selfish. Social media tells us everyone is a narcissist. But in the quiet corners of a blood bank, I see the truth. Heroes are real. They just look like tired commuters.

If you want to lead, stop looking for a stage. Start looking for a way to serve.”

Dr Arun V J on a Silent Hero: The Donor Who Traveled 8 Hours to Save a Child